Over the last month we’ve talked about some questions many Christians quietly wrestle with:

Is God mad at me?

Is God tired of my prayers?

Did God leave me on read?

How do I hear from God?

While these seem like separate questions, I’ve realized they all come from the same place. They reveal what we believe about God’s character.

Nobody wakes up one day and decides God is annoyed with them. Those beliefs come from somewhere.

• Past experiences.

• Disappointment.

• Unanswered prayers.

• Relationships.

• Church experiences.

• Expectations that God never promised.

Before we can answer how to hear from God or trust Him when He feels silent, we have to examine the picture of God we’ve been carrying around. Because sometimes the biggest barrier to connection isn’t God’s distance from us, it’s our misunderstanding of who He is.

We will talk this month on how we put human characteristics on God or how trust changes everything. Do we approach God like a genie wanting him to grant our wishes but not deal with the things he asks of us? The more we know Gods word and know his character we can focus on what He says and not our circumstances. If you think God is mad do you move further away and distance yourself from him or move closer? He wants us to be close to him, so anything keeping you away is not him.

This is why we talked yesterday about reading your bible, you. can’t get to know God if you don’t know His word, you won’t know His voice.

We will dig deeper this month but in the mean time ask God to help you identify things that are keeping you from being as close to him as you want to be.

Until next time,

Dominique

For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires. Hebrews 4:12 NLT

When I read Scripture consistently, it starts speaking to the very things I’m concerned about or praying through. Not in a spooky or mystical way—but in a clarifying one. Things surface. Patterns become obvious. Convictions get clearer.

I heard someone say once that when you read the Bible, the Bible reads you. It sounds a little strange at first, but I’ve found it to be true.

When I was thinking a lot about promotion and leadership, I found myself spending time in 1 and 2 Kings. Reading about the different kings in the Old Testament was surprisingly grounding. Over and over, I saw the same themes: leaders relying on other people instead of God, taking credit for success that wasn’t theirs, trying to please the crowd instead of obeying God, ignoring warning signs until it was too late.

None of it felt random. These were exactly the lessons I needed at that stage of my life. They gave me language for things I wanted to avoid and wisdom I could actually put into practice as I took on new responsibilities at work.

The key word here is consistent.

This isn’t about reading the Bible once in a while when something is wrong. It’s about staying with it long enough for it to shape how you think and lead and decide. I’m reading through a Bible-in-a-year plan again with my church, and it’s going well. It wasn’t perfect—there were moments when it felt shaky—but I paused, reset, and got back on track.

And that’s part of the process too.

Reading the Bible isn’t about speed or streaks. It’s about showing up, again and again, and letting God speak over time.

What might God be trying to show you—not all at once, but over time—if you stayed with His Word a little longer than usual?

This month, I’m revisiting a few posts I wrote in earlier seasons questions that still come up, still linger, and still matter. I’m rereading them with fresh eyes and updated perspective, because some questions aren’t meant to be answered once and forgotten; they’re meant to be carried, revisited, and held with honesty over time.

All of these posts are over five years old, so if you’ve read them before, consider this an invitation to read them again. There are new insights, and they’re shorter than before…turns out your girl was a little long-winded back in the day. lol. These questions come up again and again, and as we grow, we need space to revisit them with fresh eyes and fresh perspective.

Over the next few weeks, we’ll revisit questions about prayer, waiting, and learning to recognize God’s voice over time. Its going to be good, I can’t wait for you to read it.

Until next time,

Dominique

I don’t typically write about Father’s Day.

For me, it has always been a complicated day because I do not have a relationship with my own father. But as I watch my husband father our boys, I am reminded of how important fathers are.

And honestly, I have been thinking about how hard it must be to be a Black father raising Black boys.

This is not to diminish mothers at all, but that is not what this post is about. Today, I want to give honor where honor is due.

Fatherhood is not easy. Men carry so much. They are expected to be strong, but not too hard. Gentle, but not too soft. Present, but still providers. Protective, but not overbearing. In a world that does not always give Black boys the benefit of the doubt, I imagine the weight of raising them well is heavy.

So today, I want to give props to my husband. I see how he loves our boys, teaches them, corrects them, plays with them, protects them, and shows up for them. I do not take that lightly.

I am also blessed to know some great fathers, grandfathers, uncles, mentors, and father figures. Some had strong fathers of their own. Some became what they never had. Either way, their presence matters.

So take a few moments today to say thank you to the hardworking dads and father figures in your life.

Your love, sacrifice, presence, and consistency are seen.

Happy Father’s Day.

I’m still in awe that I had that much to say.

Then again, it took me five years to get here, and I probably could have done it in a shorter time frame. Oh well.

What I am proud of is that I never stopped completely. Even when I took a year off, I came back. So much life has happened over these last five years, and I’ve tried to stay open to the lessons the Lord wants to teach me through it all.

Here are a few things I’ve learned along the way.

Writing doesn’t require inspiration, but it sure helps.

What I’ve learned is that I have some control over how inspired I feel. What am I taking in? What’s feeding my mind and soul?

That matters.

If I want to create, I have to pay attention to what I’m consuming. The more I read, learn, observe, and spend time with God, the easier it is to tap into creative endeavors.

Planning helps.

A lot.

Some people can sit down and write on demand. I can sometimes do that, but having a plan makes everything easier. Keeping a running list of ideas and scheduling posts has helped me tremendously.

Always be writing.

Even if it’s only for 15 minutes.

I can write a surprising amount in 15 minutes when I actually sit down and focus. Those small pockets of time add up faster than you think.

Done is better than perfect.

I read a quote from Jerry Seinfeld that said:

“Just make it exist first. You can make it good later.”

That phrase really spoke to me.

Make it exist.

So many ideas never make it out of our heads because we spend too much time trying to perfect them. Writing is birthing ideas and putting them out into the world for people to see. You can always improve something later, but first it has to exist.

Consistency builds consistency.

I’ve done really well this year scheduling posts, and I’ve noticed something interesting. Consistency doesn’t just produce results, it produces more consistency.

The more you do something, the easier it becomes to keep doing it.

If you keep writing, you won’t run out of material.

I used to worry about this all the time.

What if I run out of things to write about?

But this year I worked on three different writing projects. I finished the first draft of my book, continued writing for the blog, and started contributing to a devotional at church.

There’s some crossover, but not much.

Being consistent has allowed the ideas to flow. One idea often leads to another, and another after that.

Make time for your gift.

I don’t always do this well.

Life gets busy, and writing can easily get pushed to the side. But I notice a difference when I make time for it. There are gifts God gives us that require intentional space to grow, and writing is one of those gifts for me.

Keep reading.

In a world full of distractions, reading books can get lost in the shuffle.

But reading helps writing. It stretches your thinking, introduces new ideas, and exposes you to different voices. The best writers are usually readers too.

Audience doesn’t matter as much as obedience.

This may be the biggest lesson of all.

For a long time, I worried about whether people would read my work. How many views would it get? Would people share it? Would it resonate?

Those things are nice, but they aren’t the point.

This is my gift, and I trust that it will get to the right people as long as I’m obedient in using it.

My job is to write. God can handle the reach.

I hope it doesn’t take me another five years to get to 600, but priorities change and life happens.

I remember hearing Joyce Meyer say she wanted to write 100 books, and she didn’t start until she was around my age. Forty.

I don’t want to write 100 books, but I do want my work to be consumed by as many people as possible. More importantly, I want to faithfully use what God has given me.

Three hundred posts later, I think the biggest lesson is simple:

Just keep showing up.

Keep showing up when you’re inspired.

Keep showing up when you’re tired.

Keep showing up when life gets busy.

Keep showing up when nobody seems to be paying attention.

Keep showing up when you’re not sure what to say.

Because sometimes the accomplishment isn’t the number of posts.

Sometimes the accomplishment is becoming someone who keeps writing.

Until next time,

Dominique

I hit 200 on January 1, 2021.

Five years later, I’ve hit 300.

So much has happened in between—another baby, a promotion, a major writing project completed, new video content, a growing platform, and earning my life coach certification.

God has pushed me and stretched me in ways I didn’t see coming. He challenged me to stop playing it safe in my writing—to dig deeper, peel back the layers, and tell the truth. To stop being afraid and trust that He would meet me on the other side.

Now for the thank-yous—award show style:

First, I have to thank God—who is the head of my life. Cue the music. 😂

But seriously… thank you, God. None of this would be possible without You.

To my day ones—thank you. I haven’t always been consistent, but you stayed with me.

To my friends who asked where my posts were—thank you for holding me accountable.

To my Care Group—thank you for letting me practice on you. My writing and confidence grew because of you.

To my husband—thank you for giving my gift room to grow and for always encouraging me.

To my new followers—thank you for trusting me and continuing to come back.

My heart is so full of gratitude for anyone who takes the time to read the words I write. People all over the world read my writing, and that will never stop amazing me.

Keep coming back.

I’m excited to see where we’re going next

Until next time,

Dominique