Three books that had an impact on me

Daily writing prompt
List three books that have had an impact on you. Why?

The Books That Stayed With Me

I read 100 books last year, so trying to narrow that down to three feels almost impossible. But I love this prompt, so I’m giving it a try—not by ranking, but by naming the books that lingered. The ones that shaped how I think, how I move, how I pray, and how I see the world.

Rebecca Not Becky

Catherine Wiggington Greene & Christine Platt

This book challenged me in necessary ways. It forced me to sit with hard truths about race, faith, and performative allyship, especially within Christian spaces. It asked questions many people are uncomfortable asking and named dynamics many people prefer to ignore. It didn’t just inform me; it unsettled me, and that’s often where growth begins. It may be as a black woman look at the lived experience of white women in a different way and that was a good thing.

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry

John Mark Comer

This book felt like a mirror. It confronted my pace, my productivity, and my quiet addiction to busyness. It reframed spiritual maturity not as doing more for God, but being more with God. In a culture that rewards exhaustion, this book gave me permission—and conviction—to slow down and reorder my life around presence instead of pressure. I love the way he writes, so friendly and conversational, plus he reads a ton so he has a lot of references, which I loved. I enjoy everything he writes and he is a Millenial like me.

Twelve Ordinary Men

John F. MacArthur

John MacArthur is a OG in bible study. What I appreciate about this book is that it was easy to understand and apply to everyday life. What stood out to me most here was the reminder that God consistently works through ordinary people. No polish. No platforms. Just availability, obedience, and time. It challenged the modern obsession with gifting and influence and pulled me back to faithfulness. A quiet but grounding read.

The 1619 Project

Nikole Hannah-Jones

This wasn’t just educational—it was clarifying. It reframed American history in a way that demands honesty and maturity. It reminded me that truth-telling is an act of courage, and that understanding the past is essential if we’re serious about shaping a better future. This book expanded my lens and deepened my resolve.

Awakening

Stovall Weems

This book landed at the right time. It spoke to leadership, repentance, and the cost of ignoring internal warning signs. It was sobering and reflective, especially for anyone in ministry or influence. A reminder that spiritual awakening often comes after painful honesty.

Razorblade Tears

S.A. Cosby

This one surprised me. Beneath the violence and grit was a deeply human story about grief, masculinity, fatherhood, and redemption. It was raw and uncomfortable, but also tender in unexpected places. Proof that fiction can sometimes tell the truth in ways nonfiction can’t. S.A. Cosby is soo good. Once I read this book, I wanted to read everything by him.

Final Thoughts

Looking at this list now, I notice a theme: formation.

These books shaped me spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally. They slowed me down, stretched me, and asked more of me than passive consumption.

If you’re looking for reads that don’t just entertain but transform, these are a good place to start.

The best ones don’t end when you turn the last page…they keep working on you long after.

Can we have it all?

Daily writing prompt
What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?

Having it all means you have everything you want in life and there are no gaps. I unfortunately don’t think that you can have it all. There is a quote from Oprah that says you can have it all, but just not all at the same time. I believe this statement more. Everything costs and a person can’t be in more than one place at a time.

What is enough?

I feel like trying to “have it all” you are constantly chasing your tail because it’s never enough. You start making money, you want more money, you buy a nice house, then you want a nicer house, have one kid, folks start rushing you to have another. The goal keeps moving.

I don’t know about you, but I find it very difficult to give 100% at work, 100% to my husband and 100% to my kids, I didn’t add my other roles as a daughter, sister, friend.

I think trying to have it all can lead to burnout and unrealistic expectations.

Redefining “Enough”

Finding peace and contentment involves redefining what “enough” means to you personally. Here are some steps to consider:

  1. Identify Core Values: Determine what truly matters to you. This might include meaningful work, quality time with loved ones, personal growth, or health and well-being. Prioritizing based on your core values can help you allocate your time and energy more effectively.
  2. Set Realistic Goals: Instead of aiming for perfection in every area, set achievable goals that align with your values. Recognize that it’s okay to excel in some areas while maintaining a balance in others.
  3. Practice Gratitude: Regularly reflecting on what you are grateful for can shift your focus from what you lack to what you have. This practice can enhance your sense of contentment and reduce the constant desire for more.
  4. Embrace Imperfection: Accept that you cannot be perfect in all your roles. Allow yourself to be human, make mistakes, and learn from them. This acceptance can reduce stress and increase overall well-being.
  5. Quality Over Quantity: Focus on the quality of your efforts and interactions rather than the quantity. Deep, meaningful connections and achievements often bring more satisfaction than spreading yourself too thin.

“Having it all” might be an elusive goal, but finding a fulfilling balance is achievable. By redefining what “enough” means for you, setting realistic goals, and prioritizing your core values, you can lead a more content and balanced life. Remember, it’s not about achieving perfection in every role but about finding harmony and satisfaction in the journey.